Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Dear Faithful Diary, I will tell you story 1 first...

"MY EX HUSBAND IS A PAIN IN THE BUTT!"
Divorcing someone doesn’t mean our class with them is over. If the marriage is finished, but we’re still blaming them for our misery and our mortgage, we are still hooked to them! We remain linked because there is more to learn.

You say: “But the guy is a turkey! I could do anything, but forgive him!” Forgiving him probably would be the hardest thing – and it’s probably something you are not good at – so you are getting a chance to practice it. You can postpone the class, but if you want your life (and your health) to improve, you’ll have to take it sometime. While we believe that someone is ruining our life, that belief will make it true for us. It might seem like they are in the way of our happiness. Actually it’s us in the way – because we choose how we see people.

2 comments:

Jensen Ong Macus said...

kerrey wrote on Dec 15,
imagine la. for a guy, you dont work n be housewife, become fat and ugly niamah, restricted off freedom to go anywhere u like or even just hangin out with gfs, take care of his kids, having his kids' surname as his...then he lari , u angry bo?

Jensen Ong Macus said...

anmaron wrote on Dec 15,
maybe for a time lor... just after that i will forgive him... cuz he had given me the best marriage at first
if you still in lvoe with someone, you will find a way to forgive him/her... quoted from George Williams, Desperate Housewives. this happens when Bree wana divorce with her Rex bcuz of adultery